A pleasant greeting. An unexpected conversation. A group fitness class or a business meeting.
Each of these can serve as a good distraction when the only thing you want at a certain moment is a response, or, more precisely, the response you wish for. You recollect the last communication that took place and questions start crossing your mind at lightning speed. Why? What if? How? When? Who else?
If getting a response takes a little longer, you try harder to focus on the distractions. Another greeting. The next meeting. A second fitness class. The questions become even more annoying, but after some time their power starts to wane. Suddenly, what felt as a distraction before regains its rightful role and gets the deserved attention. The non-existent response is almost forgotten. And then, a week later or in the following year, when the response comes, it simply doesn’t matter… It has become a distraction.